I say you shouldn't be friends for such long a time before you start dating or you will miss the chance, because when the relationship starts in the first place, it may definitely crash.That you know a lot about each other doesn't guarantee that you'll not break up even in the most hurtful new to the chart room??Jerry Seinfeld wisely observed that breaking up with someone was like trying to tip over a soda machine. Someone throws away a prominent career because they have fallen in love (or lust) with someone they shouldn’t. Once it is moving and unstable only then you can push it over. It is difficult to tell another person, “I don’t want a romantic relationship with you.” Hearing it from someone else is clearly worse. The logic usually goes, “I do like her as a person. One night you’re out as friends, you have a couple of drinks, somebody leans in too close, and BAM! Only this situation is much more confusing, hurtful, and sad. It is hard to turn off romantic feelings You see it in the paper every day.You may even subtly be pushing things in that direction. Your memories may haunt you, and make it difficult to find someone new.If you did the dumping, the knowledge that this person — this new friend — would love to kiss you will always be in the back of your mind waiting for the right moment to lead you exactly where you don’t want to go. It’s easy to get mixed messages Friends do things for each other. But imagine the likelihood of this happening if you’re still seeing the person regularly.HOW CAN DAT WORK, I say limit the things you do with her and keep it at just platonic friendship.Sometimes, you don't know when you're getting too deep and you may have found yourself there before you know it; then she starts to like someone else she wants to date and you end up being jealous. if you're looking for a keeper i'll say its okay to be frnds but not like best frnds. but one thing for sure don't get relegated to "being frnds" if you want to be more. In my opinion, being friends should have its limits. Do you both have an intention of dating each other or is it going to happen at a random time? From experience, some girls won't be quite comfortable with you when you have become very deep friends.
Wen u cross such limits u inevitably are saying u want anoda level.Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Friends Before Dating - Good Or Bad (4117 Views) Inter-tribal Dating Good Or Bad??/ Things To Know Before Dating African Men / 16 Things You Should Know Before Dating A Short Girl (1) (2) (3) (4) In my opinion, being friends should have its limits. Do you both have an intention of dating each other or is it going to happen at a random time? From experience, some girls won't be quite comfortable with you when you have become very deep friends.If both parties transit with the clear view of where they are heading it will be good.If either 1 should loose sight of wat it all means they'll crash n burn - bad.
However, I believe that it's never wise to do anything if it feels forced, I witnessed a friend tell me how this amazing friend of hers who had all the qualities she wanted in a man was her close friend all along (1 year).