So spend time listening and having a conversation instead of bragging about yourself. If you agree with everything she says, she’ll look at you as being weak. Do things that cause her to picture the two of you as a couple. Sitting there and swapping stories over dinner tends to get monotonous after date number one, so start creatively planning different dates so the two of you can start to get to know each other in a very different manner.
The less you brag, the more interested she will be! When out with your date, do not check out other women in front of her. Don’t tell her all night long how beautiful she is, because she will start to think that you’ve never before been out with a woman as beautiful as her, and you’ll start to lose your intrigue. Instead of complimenting her looks, compliment her mind. If she sees you as being weak, she will no longer be attracted to you and you will no longer get a second look or a second date.
Your heartstrings feel like they’re being plucked by angels.
Twenty-four hours later, those heartstrings are being twanged by demons – because your date hasn’t called you, and you haven’t called them, and you don’t know what to do about it.
But if they’re not sure about you, they might forget about you quite quickly.” Andy: “It depends on how the date went, and how keen the other person seems to be.
If you really seemed to get on well and you got a good vibe from them, ring them the next night.
If someone’s that easy to impress, they’re not much of a catch!
” Aaron: “It would have to have been a really amazing date!
The first few minutes after a great first date are heaven.
I hope that’s not sexist – I’m sure it’s the same for girls as well.” Moira: “Assuming it’s a weekend, I get out of the house and leave my phone at home.
The best distraction is clothes shopping, so it can get expensive! If you go home and Google him you’re asking for trouble. Mainly beer.” Find out about the texting rules you should never break, get tips from our expert dating bloggers or head back to our advice pages!
I’m always wary of letting a man know how much I like him, because I don’t want to seem needy or put him under pressure.” Aaron: “If you had sex on your first date, wait at least a day or two before getting in touch.
Even if the sex was great, they might feel crowded if you get in touch too soon.
Ask her out at the end of the first date for a second date.